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About Jenny Baker

Jenny Baker loves to be with her husband Blake and their five, beautiful daughters. She lives in St. George, Utah and is surrounded by neighbors who share her same pioneer ancestors. She is a founding member of Gathering Families and works alongside other families who wish to sustain and defend the family as the fundamental unit of society and protect religious freedom. Jenny loves singing, composing, playing the piano, and filling her home with friends and family. She truly likes everyone she meets and enjoys making new friends.

‘Devilish Infirmities’ Plaguing Our Day

Certain Women and Their Infirmities

During the ministry of Jesus Christ, “certain women were mentioned alongside the twelve apostles. But it was their special calling as the first to see the empty tomb and witness the resurrection of Jesus Christ that makes us wonder what made these women so special in the eyes of our Savior.  The scriptures explain…

“And it came to pass..that he (Jesus) went throughout every city and village, preaching and shewing the glad tidings of the kingdom of God: and the twelve were with him, And certain women, which had been healed of evil spirits and infirmities, (Luke 8:1. Emphasis added) 

What do these “evil spirits and infirmities” have to do with how these women were prepared for their unique missions? And more importantly, why did the writers of the gospels feel the need to point out their personal trials?

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April 2019 General Conference: Many Called, But Who’s Listening?

Many Called, Are We Ready to Listen? 

“How long can rolling waters remain impure? What power shall stay the heavens?” (D&C 121:30)

Change has been rolling over the Lord’s Church since President Nelson became the prophet. Each new announcement has called upon the Saints to roll the work forward at an unprecedented pace. These changes brought new life to the way we worship, learn, and organize and keep us from becoming stagnant. Some expected April Conference to keep the waters rolling. But instead of rolling out more changes, we were humbled to hear the loving voice of the Lord calling us to change ourselves and Come Unto Him! His fervent pleading with his children reminds us that it is through Jesus Christ that we can change and become like our Heavenly Parents. To do this, he has asked us to strengthen home and family, repent, and come unto Christ…. but are we listening?

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The Challenge of Living Life in the Air

Up In The Air

Do you ever feel that life always keeps you “up in the air”? Everywhere I turn, I see friends who are dealing with one upheaval after another. Just as they get their feet on the ground, they are tossed into another trial. Physical, mental, financial, and spiritual trials do not always heal completely before another problem is thrown into the mix. 

It’s Exhausting! It’s Unsettling! It’s Confusing!

My friend, June*,  is a caring and devoted mother who just lost her husband to a prolonged illness. Not only is she fighting her way through the mourning process, she is trying to work out the financial mess of years of health-care costs. Her young-adult children are suffering too. Some had turned to substance abuse to deal with the stress of their father’s condition. Others are rebelling against their mother and her faith, making her mourning even more severe. The pressure of these trials caused Jane’s auto-immune disorder to flare up. She hasn’t been able to go to work for a few weeks, and she is at risk of losing her home.

June did not do anything to bring these trials upon herself. She tirelessly gives of herself to help ease the burdens of those around her. But when June looks in the mirror, she sees a mess that she has no idea how to fix. Prayers, blessings and temple visits bring her peace, but they do not stop the unraveling of her family situation. This is hardly what June had envisioned for her life.

June isn’t the only one experiencing trials upon trials. It seems that most, if not all of us, are in a season of testing. Gratefully, there is a pattern for this in the scriptures.

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Becoming a Grandmother

From the moment my daughter told me that she was expecting, I was over-the-moon with excitement. After all, I want to be a grandma when I grow up! Doesn’t everyone?

Becoming a grandma takes many years of training. Years of being an  intentional parent to your own children helps you prepare to be an intentional grandma. You cannot underestimate the impact of your job as a mother to raise children who know and love the plan of happiness. This knowledge will help them have confidence in the Lord as they have children of their own.  Becoming a mother a long learning process, full of many ups and downs. But with the Lord’s help, and a lot of sacrifice, you just might achieve the title of, “Grandma”!

Elder Quentin L. Cook  knows how important a grandma is. In the October 2013 Conference he shared the following story:

A few months ago our two youngest granddaughters visited us—one each week. I was at home and answered the door. My wife, Mary, was in another room. In both cases, after a hug, they said almost the same thing. They looked around and then said, “I love to be in Grandma’s house. Where is Grandma?” I didn’t say it to them, but I was thinking, “Isn’t this Grandpa’s house too?” But I realized that when I was a boy, our family went to Grandma’s house. The words of a familiar song came into my mind: “Over the river and through the woods to Grandmother’s house we go.”

Elder Cook then gave this warning: “Now, let me say unequivocally that I am thrilled with the educational and other opportunities that are available to women. I treasure the fact that the backbreaking work and domestic drudgery required of women has been reduced in much of the world because of modern conveniences and that women are making such magnificent contributions in every field of endeavor. But if we allow our culture to reduce the special relationship that children have with mothers and grandmothers and others who nurture them, we will come to regret it.”

Regret

When my children were young, every 40-something woman I met would warn: “The time of having children at home is short! Enjoy EVERY MINUTE OF IT!” I have to say, I didn’t listen. I was too focused on teaching my children how to live without me that I didn’t notice how fast the time was flying.  Now, I would give anything to go back and hug their 3-year-old-selves one more time!

Today, I have more seasoned grandmas cautioning me to “Enjoy EVERY MINUTE with your grandchildren.” This time…… I am going to listen!

Intentional Grandmas

My new grandson is entering a world that is too harsh, too confused, and too heartbreaking for any innocent child to have to endure. But if the Lord is sending this little baby to our big world, we will faithfully trust that He will strengthen his parents, grandparents and great-grandparents to do the job He has called them to do. We MUST be intentional in our relationships with the Savior and with the children He has blessed us with.

As the baby’s arrival approaches, I’m anxiously looking for advice on how to be an intentional grandma. There is no “Grandmothering 101” class for me to take, so I am looking to you! How have you intentionally created a “culture of nurturing” for your children and grandchildren? How do you develop the “special relationship” that Elder Cook spoke about?

I want to hear from you!

 

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When We’re in a Hurry (and Don’t Know Why)

Dance classes, music classes, sports, before school activities, after school activities, homework, orthodontist appointments, parent-teach conferences, all day date-dances, gym memberships, book clubs, neighborhood association meetings and on and on. Do you feel like you are running at a constant sprint just to make it through the day?

I have often thought of how ridiculous our schedules are. We spend endless hours away from home and it seems that our life’s purpose is reduced to acting as chauffeurs that stop for a hamburger-dinner in-between Johnny’s soccer practice and Sally’s dance class. Is this what the Lord had in mind when He created us? How does this kind of schedule help ourselves and our families become partakers of the divine nature as opposed to the natural man?

When Elder David A. Bednar gave his recent General Conference address, I hung on every word, and I thought I understood every word. Little did I know that his talk was the beginning of my journey to understand my true purpose as a mother. In Elder Bednar’s words:

“One of the great challenges each of us faces every day is to not allow the concerns of this world to so dominate our time and energy that we neglect the eternal things that matter most. We can be too easily diverted from remembering and focusing upon essential spiritual priorities because of our many responsibilities and busy schedules. Sometimes we try to run so fast that we may forget where we are going and why we are running.”

Why are we running?  Where are we going? What are our goals? If your family is like mine, your answer to these questions might be: “to get my children a scholarship”, “to help my children ‘find’ themselves”, “to give my children confidence” …. and the list goes on. Are any of these goals what we truly desire for our children? Elder Bednar sets our sights a little higher as he teaches us that God has given us “exceeding great and precious promises” so that we can be “partakers of the divine nature”.

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I Do Not Think It Means What You Think It Means

Art by Pieter Bruegel (1525-69)

Remember the “Princess Bride” when Vizzini is constantly exclaiming, “inconceivable”? Inigo Montoya calls him out by saying, “You keep using that word, I do not think it means what you think it means.” How often do we use words that we do not understand?

Words are powerful. As mothers, we know this, right? I don’t need to *insert cute explanation here* because we live with words every day. We feel their power, their truth, and their meaning. But what if you were to wake up one day to find that all of the words you were using suddenly had a different definition? This would be a “Tower of Babel” effect where everyone around you would be speaking the same language, but no one would understand each other.

The thought of this makes me shudder!

The chaos would be bad enough, but the loss of power would be the worst. There would be no warning of danger, no asking for help, and no way to communicate with those we love most.

We have all seen the definitions of words slip away from their original meanings throughout the years. Sometimes it is easy to pass this off as a natural evolution of words. But what do we know about the importance of holding on to the correct definitions of words?

Let’s look to the Book of Mormon……

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Passing the Torch To My Daughters

My darling daughters, I can’t tell you what joy it brings me to sit with you during the General Women’s Session. I can see your eyes light up as the speakers talk with clarity and truth. I feel your excitement when something resonates especially deep within your soul. I know you realize that the prophets truly are speaking about women. And you are ready to respond.

I was barely 5 years old when Sister Camilla Kimball, President Spencer W. Kimball’s wife, gave her husband’s charge to the women of the Church. It was a powerful message “that has not been said before, or at least in quite this way.”

In our current conference, Sister Sharon L. Eubank asked those of us who were alive when President Kimball’s message was read to share his message with the younger generation. So let me share some of the things I have learned as I pass this “torch of light” on to you.

In September of 1979, Sister Kimball read….

Much of the major growth that is coming to the Church in the last days will come because many of the good women of the world (in whom there is often such an inner sense of spirituality) will be drawn to the Church in large numbers. This will happen to the degree that the women of the Church reflect righteousness and articulateness in their lives and to the degree that the women of the Church are seen as distinct and different—in happy ways—from the women of the world.

“Among the real heroines in the world who will come into the Church are women who are more concerned with being righteous than with being selfish. These real heroines have true humility, which places a higher value on integrity than on visibility. Remember, it is as wrong to do things just to be seen of women as it is to do things to be seen of men. Great women and men are always more anxious to serve than to have dominion.”

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A Light in the Darkness

Add to Faith, Virtue, Walter Rane

The symbol of  light is a common theme throughout the cultures of the world. Light represents hope, home, intelligence, knowledge, warmth, family and peace. Judeo-Christian teachings further explain that light symbolizes the Savior of the World. While many religions use candles to teach this symbolism, the candle lighting on Rosh Hashanah (Jewish New Year) is perhaps, the most meaningful to women and family.

“The job of lighting the candles is given to the woman of the home because it is the woman who most influences the spirituality there. By encouraging the study of Torah (the law of God), the meticulous performance of mitzvot, and through her nurturing presence, a woman can transform her home into a place of holiness, peace, and tranquility. It is thus fitting that she be the one to bring the extra measure of light and holiness with the Shabbat candles.”

The attached article explains this eternal role of women, “As women, Daughters of Zion, we are bearers of light. We have more influence than we realize. As we keep the light in our hearts burning, we can, and do, shape and mold the world with our lights.”

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A Light In the Darkness

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Catch the Vision in the Eye of the Storm

I’m sure most of you have read about the new Relief Society and Priesthood curriculum for this coming year. I have heard many questions and worries from friends. They wonder what it will look like and how it can work in their wards. It is always difficult to try something new. Especially when it is so different from what we are accustomed to. But, as I have helplessly watched our brothers and sisters in Texas struggle to overcome Hurricane Harvey, I believe that the timing of the announcement of the new curriculum couldn’t be more perfect to help us catch the vision.

For those of you who haven’t read the announcement, the “Teachings of the Presidents” will be replaced with the “Come, Follow Me-For Melchizedek Priesthood and Relief Society Meetings” curriculum. We will be studying General Conference talks and articles. It’s the lesson plan for the first Sunday of each month that has me thinking about the catastrophe in Texas.

According to the announcement, the first Sunday of each month will be set aside as a time to counsel together about local needs. This council will be led by the presidency or group leadership. Imagine how important it is to practice this kind of organization. The skills we will acquire, as we learn to counsel and serve together, will help us more perfectly respond to events such as this flood in Texas.

Now, Catch the Vision With Me …

What if all the world was covered in the stakes of Zion?

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The Miracle of the Flood

It was a Tuesday morning in January 2005 and although we had experienced rain for a few days. It wasn’t coming down hard enough to cause too much concern. The rivers were rising, and my husband, along with other men in our ward, were busy placing sandbags around the homes closest to the rivers. We were taking precautions, not getting too overly anxious over a little rain… UNTIL…..  I received a call from my husband; “Creekside #58 is going into the river, get men down here NOW!” Immediately, I ran down the street to give this news to the bishop in our ward. He was with other members of the priesthood, sandbagging by the river. Within seconds, these men were piled in trucks, heading for the neighborhood down the street.

#58 fell into the river, followed by houses on either side. The stream that we graciously call the Santa Clara “River” now resembled the roaring Colorado. It commenced in taking chunks of land out from under the homes as it cut a new path, far from it’s original course. Other neighborhoods were now being evacuated as more homes were being undercut by the torrential flood of water and debris. The Stake President was alerted to what was happening and soon, men from all over the valley were arriving to help.

Work continued after the sun went down. With the power out, car lights were focused on each house as workers made their way through darkened homes in order to save family pictures, grandma’s china and other precious odds and ends. Shortly after the fire department deemed the house unstable and the workers evacuated, a loud crack would echo through the air and the house would completely disappear into the dark mouth of the mighty Santa Clara. No one could believe their eyes. So much loss in so little time just didn’t make sense.

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